Monday, January 15, 2007

Two in one day!

Hmm...okay more like 1 1/2 since it's an online quiz but methinks that it should probably count for something. My sentiments: technically some minutes wasted since I knew this already and have enough family and friends waiting to remind me re: the same (and if you're one of them scroll down and see my results...I'm so not OC!) but hey wasting time might also be an art-form...if not my friend Elizabeth and I are determined to make it one!


The Neat Freak

You scored 27 anxiety, 28 awkwardness, and 56 neuroticism!
You exhibit neurotic behaviors without the underlying anxieties, and you manage fine socially while balancing compulsive urges...so you must be The Neat Freak! You are happy, well-adjusted, and...organize obsessively. Your friends call you OCD, but you're not: you just love to tidy and categorize!





Your low anxiety score implies that you are able to relax, can enjoy the here and now, and have a healthy amount of self-confidence.



Your low awkwardness score implies that you are socially capable, are personable and charming, and probably go to parties and have fun (especially cleaning up afterwards!).



Your high neuroticism score implies that you exhibit neurotic behaviors--probably cleaning, organization, perfectionism, and other orderly compulsions.





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See the other results!



Well-Adjusted



The Neat Freak



The Dork



The Geek



Phobic



Obsessive-Compulsive



The Subtle Neurotic



The True Neurotic












My test tracked 3 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
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You scored higher than 99% on anxiety
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You scored higher than 99% on awkwardness
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You scored higher than 99% on neuroticism




Link: The Neurotic Test written by littlelostsnail on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the The Dating Persona Test

"Desidre"ing and 2007

That's Latin for not accepting any outcome other than success. Somewhat late but a happy new year to all. Here's to a year of "desidre".... acting to achieve everything each one of us wants. Yup I fall somewhere in-between belief in destiny but being able to shape it as well.

How am I going to do that in this not-so-new-but-still-not-old-year? My resolution is to do a little spring-cleaning to get rid of all the toxic habits and people that I allow to get in the way of life and living. Granted some toxic peeps can't simply be eliminated from one's life for a host of reasons but I can surely take charge more and not let them drag me down :-).

Anyone want to share what their resolutions might be?

[Postscript added January 16: Following the original post above on January 15, I got a whole bunch of irate e-mails from some of the LTLWI readers who presumed that I haven't been in touch with them because I think they're "toxic". Nopes, far from it. Thing is my grandparents have been visiting which has brought with it a lot of happiness, a crazy schedule, and an ongoing deluge of house guests. In other words, it's hectic as hell so if you're feeling ignored it has nothing to do with "toxicness" on your part but more like me unable to work a day that's 29 hours long! I'll stop being MIA next week - promise!]

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

Auto-Resolution

With all due apologies to my friends in and/or from the Canadian yonder, especially Ted:



In the year 2007 I resolve to:
Blame Canada.



Get your resolution here.




PS: The non-auto resolutions post is forthcoming as soon as things begin to quiet down in my part of the world!

Thursday, December 21, 2006

The Berlitz Commercial via YouTube

A hearty chuckle for a crazy time of year!

Neither here nor there i.e. no additional reflections. Just something a friend shared yesterday that had me in splits. Enjoy :-)!

Monday, December 11, 2006

Emma

The subject tonight is the UK Asian Music Awards, or UK AMA. If you are not a British Asian you would pronounce it as plain three letters i.e. as a, m, a. But if you are then you would call it “Emma”. How AMA came to sound like Emma is not a mystery. It is partly due to the typical Asian British way of emphasising consonants before the vowels. This pronunciation is completely absurd and is confusing- if you register my complaint. Partly, I guess it is just to join the elite family of Tony, Oscar and others.

One thing you need to keep in mind is that the term Asian here primarily refers to us Pakistanis and Indians, and has no reference whatsoever to the rest of Asia. It feels good to know that we are at least dominating the biggest continent, innit?

So I was privileged to be present at the UK Emma last Wednesday at the Hammersmith Palais in London. The moment I entered the arena I realised how divorced I am from the British Asian life. I am an Asian by their definition, and I live in London but I still am not a part of this particular race, and it is a race.

Gone are the days when this generation used to be called the BBCDs. They have come quite far, and actually do now know who they are. Interestingly, their newly found identities look and sound surprisingly similar to Jamaicans and other variants of cool black crowd. They have so far kept the mingling of genes out of this complex racially-hybrid behavioural matrix, but everything else around them is just a combination of things Indian, Pakistani, and “yo mama, ‘sup?” in nature. Their music, their dresses, the accents and their choice of partners are a complete reflection of this new identity. I wonder what the reason behind this lifestyle is, though I do certainly and completely appreciate and understand the power of the anti-white sentiment that comes with this coalition of mindsets and cultures per se.

The evening was grand. The set, performances, and the jokes on stage- all came with a strong and unique cultural signature. That signature heightened the sense of divide that exists in the British Asian Youth. Now given that media often go on about the rise of religious fundamentalism in the youth’s attitudes, this brave and liberal tone of the youth was worth reconciling with.

While the “Emma” attitude (for the lack of a better term) is quite refreshing, its ability to shock people is quite big at the same time. Established strongly as the voice of youth, the tone is received with a raised eyebrow in quarters that are alien to it- parents, people of the original race back in India and Pakistan, and the scattered nay self-righteous critics of our culture (like myself)- all included.

I heard a lot of voices criticise what was around, I had a few comments too. However, it would be meaningless and futile to criticise this attitude and behaviour in a traditional framework. It is not a traditional phenomenon and should not be put in traditional context. What is worth having, however, is a cultural dialogue with this youth – something that we do not seem to be doing, be it within families, or socially, or even on media. This would also have to be in their language – the Emma language. Mind the accent while you learn to live with the South Asian Jamaicans please.

You would be able to watch the Emma on TV- just in case you were reading to find out more about the show. Why would you think that would happen in this blog?

Friday, December 01, 2006

December 1?!

Oh My God! It's December already?! Can someone tell me where 2006 went?

Is anybody else feeling this way or it just me by panicking by myself in a teeny-tiny corner? Someone please join me!

Please? Pretty Please....come on don't make me beg.

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Birthday Trivia?

Wow, scary precise. That doesn't mean I know what to do with the lightening bolt except imagine myself as a Greek goddess.

Tag you're it - Asad I mean you.


Your Birthdate: January 3

You are more than a big ball of energy - you are a big ball of hyper.
You are always on the go, but you don't have a type a personality.
Instead of channeling your energy into work, you instead go for fun and adventure.
Witty and verbal, you can have an interesting conversation with anyone.

Your strength: Your larger than life imagination

Your weakness: You tend to be pretty scattered

Your power color: Lime

Your power symbol: Lightening bolt

Your power month: March